Thank you for being a reasonable and good person and sharing what you’ve learned. I can finally stop reading all this “dating discourse” nonsense, I’ve actually learned something true and beneficial.
Seriously, this was a valuable insight. I kind of despised female gossip due to my ascetic inclinations, but it really just is their nature, and can be a positive force.
We understood the yin yang nature as little as 20 years ago and somehow it's been suppressed. I just want men and women to understand and love each other again.
Great writing. It reminds me of how the Moirai weave your hate. One can cut your strings loose and send you to the underworld; or, they can craft a great life out of your fabric.
A weave then would be feminine, their very hair a consistent symbol of social fabric. Wheel of Time's intro with matriarchal braided hair got this right.
Interesting construct, “Women are storytellers and story keepers with the powers to write, delete, rewrite, etc.” I need time to let this idea fester. It feels like it has legs, as if there might be valuable insights and implications, beyond what you've already outlined.
I suspect you'll have more to say on this topic. Thanks for sharing.
Any questions? What would you like me to add on the topic? The problem is this is a distilled core, to say more would be to blab inanely about various insights and implications downstream. If you have a preferred direction for me to focus on I'd be happy to oblige.
How to convince an ostensibly religious, yet “empowered” wife to embrace her natural role, rather than girl-bossery. (Also a SAHM, so we are perhaps so close…)
Girlbossery is a narrative. I'd say have regular conversations about what's most important in life - kids, diet, sleep - and who we are supposed to love most, and how to help them. This is far easier for a mother. You can't come in adversarially and change her narrative but you can steer it with questions and focus. Sincere love and respect go really far in this regard.
Excellent breakdown! Nice meat-and-potatoes read! Thanks for sharing this!
Thank you for being a reasonable and good person and sharing what you’ve learned. I can finally stop reading all this “dating discourse” nonsense, I’ve actually learned something true and beneficial.
Seriously, this was a valuable insight. I kind of despised female gossip due to my ascetic inclinations, but it really just is their nature, and can be a positive force.
We understood the yin yang nature as little as 20 years ago and somehow it's been suppressed. I just want men and women to understand and love each other again.
Me too buddy. It should come naturally without all this social scaffolding don’t you think?
It does come naturally in good places, but evil builds the scaffolding to keep you out. Scaffolding grows when trust declines and vv.
Great writing. It reminds me of how the Moirai weave your hate. One can cut your strings loose and send you to the underworld; or, they can craft a great life out of your fabric.
A weave then would be feminine, their very hair a consistent symbol of social fabric. Wheel of Time's intro with matriarchal braided hair got this right.
Interesting construct, “Women are storytellers and story keepers with the powers to write, delete, rewrite, etc.” I need time to let this idea fester. It feels like it has legs, as if there might be valuable insights and implications, beyond what you've already outlined.
I suspect you'll have more to say on this topic. Thanks for sharing.
Any questions? What would you like me to add on the topic? The problem is this is a distilled core, to say more would be to blab inanely about various insights and implications downstream. If you have a preferred direction for me to focus on I'd be happy to oblige.
How to convince an ostensibly religious, yet “empowered” wife to embrace her natural role, rather than girl-bossery. (Also a SAHM, so we are perhaps so close…)
Girlbossery is a narrative. I'd say have regular conversations about what's most important in life - kids, diet, sleep - and who we are supposed to love most, and how to help them. This is far easier for a mother. You can't come in adversarially and change her narrative but you can steer it with questions and focus. Sincere love and respect go really far in this regard.